Those of you who know me in my personal life know this has been a year full of changes, some planned, some unexpected, and some that knocked the breath clean out of me. There have been surgeries and miracles, births and deaths, a move, and new possibilities. I have people who ask me how I'm coping so well with all the change and upheaval. I'll tell you...change IS the only constant and you can either bend like the willow or stand firm and you snap and break. As we enter o